Dating in 90 days

In this excerpt, she shares why this method works and what guidelines you should use for success.

Buuuut people can’t contain all their issues forever, and as a relationship progresses their real selves start to emerge. Then use those first 90-days to investigate your partner (I’m not talking about Facebook stalking).You are not just trying to get to know what your partner brings to your relationship, but also how willing they are to bend, make minor changes, and act conscientiously toward you. Give the relationship time so that different situations can arise that will bring out different characteristics in your partner.Time will allow for your partner to become more comfortable and less guarded so that behaviors that were previously suppressed will come to the surface.Once you’ve given the relationship some time, then patterns will emerge that will allow you to decide whether or not you want to invest more in your relationship.I am a wife, a mom, a Ph D in Psychology and an advocate and life-long lover of all things relationships.

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