Warning signs that youre dating a loser
Aumiller and Goldfarb have based this book on their experiences as psychologists.
They've seen firsthand how women can be led astray by the "Losers" they date or even marry, and their aim is to help women spot dead-end relationships before they get into them too deeply.
Psychologists usually treat the victims of "The Loser", women or men who arrive at the office severely depressed with their self-confidence and self-esteem totally destroyed.
The following list is an attempt to outline the characteristics of "The Loser" and provide a manner in which women and men can identify potentially damaging relationships before they are themselves severely damaged emotionally or even physically.
" You may be so overwhelmed by this display of instant attraction, instant commitment, and instant planning for the future that you'll miss the major point - it doesn't make sense!!
Normal, healthy individuals require a long process to develop a relationship because there is so much at stake.
There are a variety of "bad choices" that may be encountered each week - most of which are easily to identify and avoid.
We all know to avoid people that appear insane or abusive and not select them as a dating partner.
One of the things that might attract you to "The Loser" is how quickly he or she says "I Love You" or wants to marry or commit to you.In the beginning, "the honeymoon" of the relationship, it's difficult to determine what type of individual you are dating.Both you and the date are guarded, trying to obtain information about the other as much as possible without seeming like a police detective.If your partner possesses even one of these features, there is risk in the relationship.More than three of these indicators and you are involved with "The Loser" in a very high risk relationship that will eventually create damage to you.